Most Problems, especially Most Infuriating Problems, are Your Doing
Problems that you don’t understand, or Problems you ponder-over-and-over and can’t let go
Most of these problems: You are responsible for (or at the very least, played a role)

When in doubt: Accept the Blame (and don’t accuse others)

When you doubt: Apologize and Ask for Forgiveness

WHAT COULD BE SIMPLER !!!
Nothing else could provide such complete and immediate relief